Monday, October 26, 2009

Attention to parents and future parents

Note: this article is totally aim on complaining. If it is sounds bad for you please take your visit at next article.

THIS is specially aim to those parents or those future parents.

Lately I was encountered with problematic family. The young parent giving birth to a child three years ago and not fully taking their responsible to raise the child, ending up with their child is so reluctant to follow their words. Recently they give birth to another baby and they start to decree the three year-old child to be self-independent instantly. I was so pity to this child and decided to give some commend to this family, but they said they know how to tackle this problem since they are older than me and since they are being parents while I am not. However, from the way they teach and scold the three year-old child I can see that they don’t know. Probably this would work for other children, but in this case is so much different. That family is totally absurd, they always though that they had given all elemental things for the child to growth healthily by avoiding the child to eat sweets, ice cream and so on. Yeah, may be you would agree to this family. But think again if you having a childhood of knowing nothing about sweets and junk food: do you think this is fair? Even an adult also need it, why they can’t? In this new era, they are a lots of article evaluate about children thinking mind. When children being bad or naughty can be caused by 1) to attract their parent’s attention or 2) the behaviors are inherited from the environment they live and the way they grow up. So, there is nothing to blame to the children themselves, instead the parents should inspect themselves as being a well developed adult. So, before I end up this article I hope that any couple could consider about the criteria prior before you take your action to get married.
1st) choose the person you 100% loves to be your partner that accompany you until the end. Even 99.9% should reconsider precisely until you get the 100%.

2nd) plan for your child education and instruction before you plan to give birth for a child.
3rd) never make your child to follow what you think by yourself. Never build a road for your child that according to what you think in your mind. Your work is as an advisor, not a leader. Your work is to give suggestion and alternative for your child, not giving command that should follow like army!

4th) always seek for the specialty in your child to inspire the alternative for your children. Don’t follow any plans or alternative that looks good in other children. Make a unique alternative that can suit your child to choose.

Think about it: If a parent jobs is to mold a child into what they want, what about the molding machine in the factory. If a parent job is to make their child to follow the command, what about the army in Iraq.

Sunday, October 18, 2009

Meet Me Halfway

YoYo. Hey there, sorry for not update my blog for such a long time. Today I got nothing to complaint as usual, but i would like to share a good song with you all. Meet Me Halfway, from Black eyed peas. The reason I 'promote' this song is because of Fergie, she looks so beautiful in this MV. Her black hair make she look elegant and quite obviously she lost weight for this MV (I think so...). So try to enjoy this MV, it is nice. Trust me.





And thats all. bye...

Saturday, October 3, 2009

AUNTY for younger or older



I think Malaysian especially those Chinese have problem to greet with people.

That day, a middle age lady came to order Curry Mee from my mother and she said: “aunty, ho wa kari mi, bihun mi mai ham.”


Another case, an obviously old looking man with white hair and wrinkled face came by to order mee and said: “aunty ar, ho wa kari mi, ge hui, ge hiam jio.”


They are the proper sentences to use in Butterworth to order food except the word ‘AUNTY’. Can you imagine some people older than you calling you aunty or uncle? How can this happen in our culture!!!


I mean there are some other proper words to use rather than ‘aunty’ right? Or maybe they don’t understand the word ‘anuty’ or ‘uncle’?


I remember in Kampar, all their favorites greet is either leng zai or leng lui and these can come out from their mouth even with closed eye. But why in Butterworth there is no such kind of name to use. No doubt leng zai and leng lui must use depend on situation (because can cause misunderstood, in Butterworth you use these word, people would though you are prostitute or what), but at least they (those really aunty and uncle) use some other proper word instead of calling others younger with an old greet! Please la~!


However this can’t blame on them because this is the heredity from our parent since we are young, right. When we are still in children time, we had well-trained to greet elders with either aunty or uncle depends on their sexuality. Other than that, nothing had been taught to differentiate their level of oldness (perhaps they also found hard to make a name out for them).


Whatever, this is important because we are well educated person. So I have a personally suggestion out for you all to make as a references.


When you saw people about the same age with you, use ‘yo’.


When you saw people younger than you, use ‘Hi! Hi!’.


And when you saw people older than you but looking younger, use ‘what product you use’.

Thursday, September 24, 2009

I think I am HOT !!!



Guys do you know what is a mobile sauna? Had you been experiencing a driving sauna from one place to another place in your life? I was. But I rather prefer to call it as the ‘cannibal’s oven’ the transnational bus. But how come a vehicle can be a cannibal? This conflict arose by the term called air conditional.

A day after my exam, I though I can go back home in a peaceful and happy mood. But some how my mood was totally devastated by this air conditional! Can you imagine how was the feeling sitting in a sealed bus without air conditional and even ventilation from the outer air? It was sucks (sorry, I know it was not my style to write my blog with rude word, but I really can’t take it anymore!). The transnational is like a cannibal grilling their ‘food’ in the oven. Travel under the hot sun for three hours and fourty-three minutes without a fresh air to breath is nothing fun. Even the air I inhaled I can felt that was the breath that I exhaled few second ago. Do you want to know how the harsh condition like in the bus was? No choice, even you have no interest to know I still will tell you. The funny thing in the bus was some sort of cocktail party, everything also got. There was a girl, from Kampar as well, sitting beside me. I always though she was fainted by the hot and low ventilation in the bus until I know she was sleeping when I saw her face suddenly kecut, then I knew she was suffocating when sleeping. But the point is that how can she sleep in such a condition!!! Another ‘cocktail’ event was the bus driver. He like performing the tiger show (that we recently so crazy about), he open his button one by one on a time and his perspiration dropping like a river. But luckily he is not nice looking, otherwise those aunty in the bus will start become crazy to crave for man taste.
Another lucky things was that there were no people farting any out break gases in there, if not I sure I would be ‘napping’ in the bus until I reach Butterworth bus terminal or more seriously wake up in the hospital. However these are not the climax, the most unbelievable thing was happen to an old fat malay lady in the bus. As you all know malay girl need to wear tudung right. And some more she was quite fat and the whole things she worn were black. As usual, black are well known to absorb heat, in that situation I really can’t see her sweat, I wonder where does her sweat gone, and her expression is like “Ooo.. so cold here”. =.= !!! probably she got a good imagination la~.

Sunday, September 20, 2009

BCG



Do you know what is BCG? If you are the Y2S1, Group 1Biotech student, perhaps you would know what it is. BCG aka Biotech Crazy Group. Do you know the history of this group? If no, let me tell you the story. Actually it is an officially approved group by those biotech groups 1 students (how they have the power to make the approval? I also want to know, but what ever keep it on). The group’s consist of countless member (because don’t know how to count) and the president is Cindy, who had initiated the BCG. The group starts to emerge during the chemistry lecture at 2009 (because the class is too boring, so we start to think about some thing nonsense). The first thing the president planned was to have a trip to Pulau Redang, but due to the fees problem so the president starts to help the whole group members to collect some money for the trip (so at the same time need to scarify somebody also lol). BCG most famous laborer, Reid (multi purposely can act as cleaner and accompanier as well) had been appointed to help the group to gain the fees for the Redang trip (and it makes the whole group act like a black market providing gigolo services). … … (A lot of things happen here but nothing to do with the story, so keep it on). The vision of BCG is to seek for the crazy things and practice it in the university and to keep all the members together (actually got this thing or no I am not sure, just make it sound nice to hear only). While the mission … … (erm… probably too hard to perceive until I didn’t have any idea WHAT IS THE MISSION). So do you know why the BCG’s logo was a broken light bulb? It was the idea by Edwin, who thinks that this group would never do normal things by just knowing the exact meaning of BCG.

And that’s all the history of the BCG. Ouya, something important to mention. The Redang trip was no longer valid on and had been changed to Langkawi (this is because someone had enjoy the services but never deposit the check to our treasurer (Rebecca), I don’t mention the name, I give a clue, the name start with Z). HaHa.

Saturday, September 19, 2009

Scary things about MRI

What is MRI actually?

Its whole name called Magnetic Resonance Imaging.

What it used for?

It is used to scan our body and find out any diseases that would potentially harm our body.

And what make it so scary?

Let watch this video then you will know.

TREASURE in Treasure

What appeared in your mind once I mention you about wallet? If you think about money then I will congratulate you because you are categorizing as normal for me.
Money is a treasure, so the sacks that keep the treasure will sure to be the treasure sack lol. Then what if a treasure sack doesn’t keep for any money but is another magical sack? Is that a magical sack? I wonder. But let’s think that this sack can keep for several millions of fishes, do you think this is science? But consider the size of the magical sack is only about 50 cent big. For sure it’s nothing to do with science, a magic sack indeed.

Okay it’s quite confusing. So just take a look at the picture below then you will know what I am talking about. Haha, yap this was the legendary sack I talking about.
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And this is the TREASURE I meant in the Treasure.